Just because you have gone through so much pain, it's not a must to make others go through equivalent pain, there is always an option of letting the pain go or accepting it as a challenge, God will grant you the fruits on how you behave, life will make you strong,gift you wisdom of the pain you went through.... Relation are either blessings, or teaching, so when something does not work you might as well take it as one of the above instead of pain and grief.... Life is only a teacher and it will only help a beginning , not walk all the way... You have to cover the journey.... HAPPINESS... Happiness is an emotion that does not come in any race, Coz the human smile does not belong to a particular race, Human emotions are based on the acceptance of the heart and not the man made rules, The universe is not always ruled on the man made rituals, it is I gift of all should accept to understand.... Life has too many factors that should not be tied too hard to man made rules, be...